What an awesome week!
They say that whatever happens during the two days of Rosh Hashanah will foreshadow the rest of your year – in that case, I’ll have a very interesting year filled with challenges overcome by adventure!, relaxing time with friends, long walks in the forest, and a crowd of generous stangers being kind to me.
Tsfat is a fairly small city up north in the Galilee, and it is the center of Jewish mystecism, where the Kabbalah and the Zohar were written and studied. The old city is filled with ultra-orthodox families, many artists, and a bunch of Jewish-mystic-hippies. Our hostel was nice, though occupied by a host of interesting characters (the room-keeper, and a few men who either lived there or stayed there often) who were nice enough, but not entirely sane or helpful people. The first eveing, as we were hurriedly preparing for services, the key broke off inside the lock, meaning that Beth and I were trapped outside of the room, and Shoshi and all of our stuff was trappe dinside the room. After several failed attempts of Beth body-checking the door open, and the owner of the hostel insisting (by phone) that Shoshi sit and wait in the room for a few days until he got back (there was no spare key, of course), Shoshi had to break open a window, and I climbed over several roofs until we found a way for her to get down safely. Later that night we had to break back into the room via roof and window to get things like our toothbrushes and contact solution. The next day, we went back in and rescued all of our stuff, and helped ourselves to a private room at the hostel. Everyone was so confounded by the door that could not open (and for which no key existed, anywhere) that no one cared we’d taken a much nicer room (and since the keeper refused to discount our pre-paid stay for our troubles, it all worked out). All that time roof-hopping, however, proved worth it, because we found access to the most amazing storage area/trash heap, from which we harvested several forgotten hats, sweatshirts, dresses, bags, and shirts. It had been abandoned for a very long time, and it really was more trash heap than anything else, so we didn’t feel guilty, and we washed everything well.
Hospitality in Israel is an entirely different creature than in America (or anywhere else I’ve ever been). Aquaintances become friend very quickly, and friends-of-friends might as well be your friends. People are quick and generous to open their homes to stranges for meals, or places to sleep. We were told that if we went to Rosh Hashanah services, we would almost certainly be invited home afterwards for dinner, as no one would think to let anyone go without holiday meal. So off we went to servies (which were segregated by sex and it felt extremely awful to be a woman, there), and by the end, we’d been accepted to a a meal with a young couple named Gabriel and Yael.
Gabriel was 18, and Yael 19, and they’d been married less than two months; we three girls were their first guests, and they were so warm and open to sharing their meal with us. Gabriel explained everything about the different parts fo the meal to us, and translated everything into Hebrew for Yael. They were so young and giggly and in love, and they were so glad that we had come, that they could do that mitzvah for us. As is traditional we ate certain foods that represented good things for the new year: honey and apples for asweet new year, fresh dates and beets to represent that we overcome the challenges both within and outside of us, a fish head to show we were the head and the not the rear end, pomegranates which prototypically have 613 seeds to represent the 613 mitzvot (good deeds / commandments) in the Torah, and on and on.
The second night, we were invited to the home of a modern orthodox family with 5 very active children under the age of 11, so that meal was more casual and a lot of fun – there were at least 15 people at the meal, and everyone spoke English (the parents had emigrated from America and South Africa/Canada), and kids were throwing bits of bread and arguing over who had to sit next to the fish head, and singing kid songs. Again, the family was so warm and generous – how can we ever thank them for this?!
There’s more to say about Tsfat, but I want to also write about this weekend, which I spent in Palestine, and learned a whole lot about Palestinian rights.
There’s a Palestinian man named Abed, who is very unique in that he has reclaimed his family’s farm land and continues to live there, despite constant threat of bulldozing by the Israeli army and condo developers. We are literally across the road from Jerusalem, in fact we were directly across from the Jerusalem zoo, so we heard elephants, lions, and other animals all weekend. Abed, along with several young activists, helped create a community meeting called the International Cafe or Cafe of All Nations, where people come to meet, get to know one another, and discuss strategies for helping Abed stay on his land, and help other Paelstinians, too. On both Friday and Saturday about 35 people from ALL over the world – Israelis, Palestinians, Jordanians, Americans, Italians, Swedes, Norwegians, Britons, Germans, Belgians, Canadians, and one American woman on vacation from her aid work in Afghanistan – came together to pick olives so Abed can make olive oil to sell, and dig an irrigation trench for rainwater collection, and helped water all of his plants and trees. As a Palestinian, he’s not allowed to access municipal water or dig a well, or to have electricity (even a generator) so, he hauls water from a nearby spring and hand water his hundred or so trees. He uses some really ingenious methods of desert-agricultures, including using old uptunred soda bottles with a hole punch in the lid as a drip-irrigation system. Abed is safe as long as he doesn’t leave his farm, and soon when a separation fence is built to ‘protect’ Jerusalem from the Palestinian refuge camp, we wont even be able to visit his family in the camp, or else he’ll be arrested, and his farm destroyed.
I’m in a rush for time at this internet cafe, so I don’t hink I’m doing a good job of extplaining this situation, but this was a really important learning experience for me this weekend, and I definitely am getting a perspective here that I never would learn at the farm. It’s SO EASY to ignore the Israeli-Palestinian conflict here – really, it is. I think I could easily spend all 5 months here and not really notice. But this weekend I got a taste of check points and separation fences, and police searches (nothing too dramatic) and struggle for livelihood. Talking with everyone from all over the world was the best part of the weekend, and of course thats the point – we ate a TON of amazing Palestinian food and drank so much sweet mint tea and talked and talked, thus giving life to Abed’s idea of a Cafe of All Nations. He is a really wonderful, peace-minded man, and he wants his home to be a place of love and dialogue, and I’m quite grateful for my weekend there.
Last night, the mother of one of the young activists invited us home to spend the night, so we got to stay in a real house! with a real shower! and real beds! the mom, Adah was a psychologist who worked at Yale for a long time, and her husband is an American geneticist, and we had a wonderful evening and morning with them talking politics, travel, Palestinian rights, genetics, etc etc etc. When did stranges get so nice?
I really do miss you all terribly (all 2 of you who read this thing), and I hope you’re all doing well.
Chag sameah from Israel!! (Happy holidays!)
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